Need of love [ Letter Index ]

I, as the pilot who wrote to you, have seen a number of cultured and intelligent men swindled by ruthless women, with the only interest of grabbing as much money as possible. Each of these males are convinced to be going through great love stories. Is it so difficult to distinguish a woman really in love from a ruthless one? Perhaps my question is banal. Is there a certain way to determine if a person is really in love?

Aldo


We often mention love in a very light manner. Often it is confused with sympathy, esteem, attraction admiration and gratitude. It a "feeling", which those who have been through it know how to recognize. A way to get to know one's self through partner's eyes. It enlightens you. Finding you amidst the sea of anonymity. Something authentic, opposite to vanity, the do ut des. Something which can only be absolute. The eyes of somebody in love are unique. Those who have not met these eyes have trouble recognizing them. They are easy preys. Not everybody has been lucky enough to have been loved. It is just like recognizing the eyes of first love, of a mother that welcomes you into the world. Not everybody has been blessed by so much love. These are the ones which may end up in tricky relations. Especially in certain locations of prostitution and extreme misery. where a woman can be bought, having no choice but to accept money. In this case a love story is business. Failing in love, price-included.